Muslims pose grave problem for family
A grieving family in Leicestershire are facing the grim prospect of digging up their grandfather and moving him to another plot because the relatives of a Muslim man buried alongside complained about him being a non-believer.
According to this report, Shadrack Smith, 89, died on January 13 after breaking his hip on New Year’s Eve and developing pneumonia. At his funeral on January 30 more than 400 people paid their respects to the retired horse trainer, who was also a popular figure in the Romany gypsy community.
Affectionately known as “Shady”, Smith had lived in an official gypsy camp in Aston Firs, Leicestershire, for 20 years, and his relatives laid him to rest at the nearby Lychgate Lane Cemetery, in Burbage.
His family paid £2,500 for three plots at a multi-faith cemetery and had his grave facing towards his home – a Romany tradition.
Then came a shocking blow. His relatives were informed that a Muslim family who owned a plot next to Smith’s grave had complained to cemetery bosses about their loved-ones being buried next to a “non-believer”.
The family have been warned Mr Smith’s grave may have to be moved.
The local council, who run the award-winning cemetery, will meet tomorrow to decide whether Smith’s grave will be exhumed and moved to another area of the cemetery.
But the family have vowed to fight “tooth and nail” to stop any exhumation taking place. His daughter-in-law, Tracey Smith, 46 – pictured above with her hyusband Sean – said:
This whole thing has devastated our family. We were told when we bought the plots that it was a multi-faith cemetery and it is, but the council has been so unsupportive.
I feel for the Muslim family because they obviously thought they were going to only have other Muslim families buried around them, but that’s not our fault, or our mistake. We have been in the right, and yet the council has tried to bend over backwards to please the Muslim family.
My mother-in-law found a plot which faced their home, which is a Romany tradition, and it was perfect. So we paid, but to then have the council trying to get us to move when we have done nothing wrong, it’s disgusting. We have not been able to grieve because of all this drama, and it’s been awful.
Four days before the funeral, Burbage Parish Council received a complaint from the Muslim family who own the neighbouring plot.
Julie Perrin, principal officer of the council, wrote to
Smith’s family and asked if they would consider moving Mr Smith to an alternative plot but they refused.
Mrs Smith, from Aston Firs, Leicestershire, added:
On January 26 Julie Perrin said we should find another site but she didn’t even apologise to us. The next day our undertaker phoned saying the she had been on the phone to them to see if they could use one of our plots to plant a hedge as a kind of barrier. But the bodies will still be together six feet underground so what is the point?
I just feel they should have stuck to the rules (being a multi-faith cemetery) from the beginning, instead of deeply upsetting us just to please the Muslim community.
The council received our payment through the undertakers, but they haven’t put our cheque through yet for some reason.
There is no way Shady will be exhumed, if they suggest it we will take them to the highest court in the land. We will fight tooth and nail to stop the grave being dug up.
On the Burbage Parish Council website, a document titled “Burbage Cemetery: Regulations and Management Rules” makes no mention of segregation or separate areas based on religion.
Another council leaflet regarding the cemetery states:
So that people of all denominations can use Burbage Cemetery, the graveyard ground at Lychgate Lane is unconsecrated.
Chairman of the parish council, Councillor Richard Flemming, said:
Burbage Parish Council provides an award-winning cemetery for the benefit of the whole community. Unfortunately the parish council has recently received representation from two families regarding the allocation of adjacent grave plots within Burbage Cemetery.
The parish council is sympathetic to the feelings of both families concerned and is committed to working with the relatives and the wider community to reach an amicable and acceptable solution.
The council said today that the family of the Muslim man may have mistakenly believed his grave was in an Islam-only section of the cemetery.
Principal Officer Julie Perrin, said:
There was a huge level of complaint so the correct procedure has been followed. There appears to be an assumption or misunderstanding on the part of the family complaining because there is nothing in our policy documents about there being any segregation.
Any application for moving a body would have to go through the Home Office if a family wanted that doing.
There will be a meeting regarding the policy (of segregating graves depending on faith) where I hope the majority of the 20 councillors will attend but the families will not be represented there.
Hat tip: Angela K & Ivan Bailey